Don’t Let “Likes” Determine Your Worth

Secretary Desk and Books

I struggle often with social media because I don’t know what to post. Who really cares about what I have to say? Do I even have anything to say? Of course I do. I just don’t do exciting things or go exciting places. I live a pretty ordinary life. That’s what others may think anyway, if they scroll through my feed only to see my cat and the thousands of food posts.

But the truth is, my life is not ordinary. None of these people know me. They don’t know I lost my longtime boyfriend, at the age of 25, to a brain aneurysm. They don’t know I was there to experience him dying in front of me. They don’t know I lost my cat to a long battle with cancer and my 42 year old brother to complications from a brain tumor. They don’t know how I’ve grown through caring for a step daughter, landed a great job after going on endless terrible job interviews and how I became the person I am today though years of experiences both joyful and heartbreaking.

No one’s life is ordinary. So what if you didn’t travel to 10 different countries this year and 1,000 people didn’t like your post about what you had for breakfast. Maybe you read a book to your children today, maybe you brought your parents groceries because they couldn’t do it themselves, maybe you forgave yourself today or someone else, maybe you put clothes on for the first time in weeks instead of PJ’s, or maybe you’re grieving and not ready to do anything. Whatever you did or didn’t do, don’t let comparing yourself to others’ lives make you feel like yours is less than spectacular. Don’t let the number of “likes” you get, determine your worth.

C.A. Sullivan

4 thoughts on “Don’t Let “Likes” Determine Your Worth

  1. I never have nor will I ever write for likes since my goal is to simply write what I want to read. I’m a self taught Poet who simply loves to write and my goal is to write the perfect poem. I haven’t managed to write it yet but I’ve written quite a few good ones along the way.

    I can understand where you are coming from since:

    My wife surivied a brain aneurysm back in 2007.

    In 2003 my youngest brother committed suicide.

    At the age of 56 my father died from a hepatitis c infection deliberately given to him by one of my stepmothers.

    I was also bullied throughout my career at the two companies i worked for.

    I’ve attempted suicide at least 5 times – the last attempt occurred at the age of 59 in 2019.

    The good thing is that I get to spend most of my time writing, surfing wordpress and posting on my own blog.

    Tonight I couldn’t sleep and have thoroughly enjoyed reading your blog on my phone while lying in bed listening to music.

    I hope that you will continue to write as I’ve decided to follow your blog.

    Liked by 1 person

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